From the other side

I had a realization about my recent ex-relationship, which is that it's very possible that she was limerent for me, despite making myself available to her as much as I was able to. Even from early on, I thought it was a little strange how she reacted when I would have to change or cancel plans we made. She went out of her way to make me feel horrible about it. I don't even know what else or how much more I could have done to show her I care about her, it's like nothing was ever enough. Nothing short of spending every last second with me and making sure I was agreeable and comfortable and never in a position where I could say "no" to her. I ranted a little more than I wanted to, but the main point I wanted to make is that the way she felt (or at least the way she acted) while we were together is very reminiscient of feelings I've had for LO's in the past. I thought it was interesting - that you can be both a sufferer and the cause of someone else's limerence, maybe without even knowing it. Has learning about limerence or experiencing it for yourself changed how you look back on the people in your life, or helped explain why you or other people behaved the way that they did?